On Creativity: Be a dick! But not a jerk

On Creativity: Be a dick! But not a jerk

Here in Aotearoa New Zealand, we have a saying that is used frequently.

You may have heard of it? Every Kiwi out there almost certainly has!

And the phrase?

“Don’t be a dick.”

I do get that this phrase is not EXCLUSIVE to New Zealanders but I came across a US-based advertising agency using it to promote some services recently.

And it got me thinking…

I don’t want to be an ignorant, selfish person who is, quite frankly, an idiot. I don’t want to be a dick.

But if we take another stance on that word, as it is sometimes used here in our country, a “dick” – or idiot – can be a clown, a buffoon, or a fool. And yes, that’s got a negative meaning.

And also a positive one.

I don’t want to be ignorant but I do want to make people bust out laughing because I made a comment or a post or a blog or a video that brought joy to their day.

I want to be THAT kind of dick.

And I urge you to consider being one too 😄

You know the quote that, according to my social media feed, belongs to Keanu Reeves, Richard Gere, Christopher Walken, AND Sir Anthony Hopkins? “Be silly. Be kind. Be weird.” Yeah, THAT one. It’s actually by Sweatpants & Coffee creator, Nanea Hoffman (Yes, I did check Snopes, thank you very MUCH 😄).

I’ve spent the last few weeks with various injuries (concussion bites wind!) and illnesses (hello ’flu bug that gave me vertigo!). So, while recovering, I spent time commenting on social media.

Rather than erudite nuggets of my self-publishing expertise, I was being a total dick – the good kind, pinky promise!

I was making jokes in my silly comments. I was funny and supportive and kind and an all-round DICK. I had a blast! 😄

I LOL’d multiple times a day at the funny replies people made. That’s where the real humour is IMHO. When I see a joke meme or video online, I head straight to the Comments section. People out there are HILARIOUS! And yes, you do get the other kind of dick in there too but there is so much more goodness in the world than not if you’re looking for it.

I also connected with new people JUST because they cracked me up. We will most likely never work together but they’re FUNNY! 🔥 The DM banter was superb as well.

I also got a lot of calls scheduled. People want to talk to a fellow dick, it seems 😄

Some people didn’t like me. Some people disagreed with me. But did that stop me? No.

As the great John Cleese said about creativity, “…So you’ve got to risk saying things that are silly. And illogical. And wrong and the best way to get the confidence to do that is to know that while you’re being creative, nothing is wrong….”

The fear of being wrong (and looking like a dick) is a creativity-killer.

So… be THAT weirdo! Be a dick! Let your freak flag fly!

Your authentic, goofy, adorable, competent, professional self (these qualities are NOT mutually exclusive BTW) has a whole WORLD of dick peers waiting to hear from you and connect with you and SUPPORT you.

That’s it.

Be a dick.

But not a jerk.

Peace out 😄

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Oooh Caroline: The importance of intellectual property

Oooh Caroline: The importance of intellectual property

I’ll try not to make this post too wordy but something has been weighing on my mind this week and I thought I’d share it with you.

Scrolling funny videos on social media recently, I came across a real gem which you will see linked in this post. The content creator is known on YouTube as Lubalin and it was animated by the illustrator known as Javadoodles. Take a look, it really is a good one!

But I couldn’t stop thinking about it over the following week. And my thoughts were turning to a more serious topic (don’t worry, this isn’t going to be a dry, humorless lecture!) 😄

At first glance, this is peak internet drama. Helen is venting on social media – a really common thing to do, nothing out of the ordinary there.

It seems that 8 years prior, a so-called friend or acquaintance by the name of Caroline had stolen her beloved broccoli casserole recipe. And then claimed it was HER creation and not Helen’s! Just WOW 😳 Instant deletion from the group Whatsapp chat is the minimum I would have done.

Helen has been, quite rightly, resentful and angry about this. For EIGHT YEARS. It’s not something you let go of easily. YOUR recipe and intellectual property. STOLEN. And then flaunted as belonging to the thief. Did I say this already? Just WOW 😱🤯

It might be easy (for some) to brush this off as “a petty grievance”. But if you saw this situation happen between two celebrity chefs, would you dismiss it so easily? I know that’s a whole different level of importance but really, is it? The stakes may be higher in that case but I suggest that it’s just as important to Helen as it is to the chefs.

Helen had her intellectual property stolen. She was wronged and my empathy is with Helen.

As a Self-publishing Mentor, my Team and I help nonfiction writers self-publish a brand-building book. We firmly state that we are an AI-Lite business. It’s so difficult to avoid totally (thanks, Gmail predictive replies – NOT!) but we do not use AI tools in our writing processes for our marketing or for our clients. We do not use AI-generated art in our book cover designs (ask me how the US Copyright Office reacts to AI art on book covers, it’s wild!). We also do not accept manuscripts from potential clients which have been written by AI.

AI, as Noam Chomsky so eloquently put it in my Facebook feed this week, is a “Plagiarism Machine”. I’m with you there, Noam!

It creates those social media posts and yes, manuscripts by scouring the internet and burgling OTHER PEOPLE’S INTELLECTUAL PROPERTY to rewrite as a bland, mediocre, and often inaccurate mishmash that does not benefit either the author or the reader.

Typically you can spot AI writing a mile off. Weird phraseology and hyper-florid vocabulary are usual indicators. There are AI detection tools but sadly, they are not always 100% accurate themselves.

Of course, AI can be useful for summarizing your own content or writing an outline on which you base the manuscript on that you then write YOURSELF. There are even closed loop systems where you input SOLELY your own content for AI to do its thing. It’s fast. It can give good ideas for thinking more deeply about your writing and content. But for me, AI is like fire – “a good servant but a bad master.” There is potential to get BURNED.

“You can’t copyright an idea, only the expression of that idea.” However, AI’s expression of other people’s ideas tends to be pretty shoddy. We encourage and support our clients to create their own QUALITY writing that will be a credit to them and give true value to the reader. Once again, that’s my two cents. IMHO.

And this brings us back to Helen, still p*ssed off after eight years for having HER intellectual property stolen. What do we tell her? Tough luck? Drink a cup of concrete and harden up? Or do we understand that when we create a work of art or write a book – or a RECIPE – the copyright belongs to us BY RIGHT. In the US, you can assert this right to make it easier to take legal action against mimics (hello, US Copyright Office!). Caroline needs to take a long hard look at herself and ‘fess up IMHO.

This DID turn out to be pretty wordy in the end LOL! 😄  But I promise you it was 100% written by Leesa Ellis, a Real Human™ in Dunedin, New Zealand. My thoughts. My writing. No AI.

 

Helen, if you ever see this, I’m with you. #TeamHelen

Let’s expose AI for what it is – a “Plagiarism Machine”. #TeamCaroline

 

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